FOA

My son, Nolan, expressed his desire this fall to participate in a FOA trip through his high school. FOA, which stands for Friends of Appalachia, involves traveling from Connecticut to Central Appalachia during this upcoming summer. There, he’ll dedicate a week to working directly with families in need, enduring the rain and hot summer sun to make their homes warmer, safer, and drier. Students on this trip are prohibited from bringing any form of technology for the duration. While I’ve always encouraged less screen time, the thought of him being so far away without any means of communication, along with the strenuous work he would be involved in, initially made me apprehensive. Yet, upon reflection, I realized what an incredible opportunity this could be for him—a chance to make a tangible difference in the lives of others. How could I deny him that?

Nolan has been preparing for his upcoming trip by attending monthly meetings to get to know his fellow travelers, explore potential projects, and practice using tools and machinery. Additionally, he has been fundraising to support his journey.

Today, I accompanied him to a local Stop and Shop to lend a hand in raising funds. Braving the cold, we greeted shoppers as they exited the store. Many paused to study the pictures displayed on the trifold and inquire about the trip. Nolan and his friend explained the purpose behind their endeavor, and in turn, generous strangers contributed to their cause. One woman shared how her daughter participated on a similar trip years ago, describing it as a life-changing experience. This is exactly what I hope for Nolan—to broaden his perspective on how others live and extend a helping hand. I want him to build gratitude for his blessings and recognize the privilege we enjoy.

Above all, I wish for him to carry forward this spirit of service, making a difference in the world because it matters.